We don't have a lot of money to spend on drinks at our wedding and don't want anyone to get drunk and rowdy. Should we or should we not spend money on some good wine?

I went to one wedding, it didn't have wine and I left before the meal. Not that close with the couple, so whatever.

I would say to skip it. Or, have a wine punch along w/ a non-alcoholic punch, at the reception. A wine punch will go further than straight wine.